Turning a past research essay into a blog post, I discuss the four attachment styles - anxious, avoidant, fearful-avoidant and secure - and their roots, signs, and behaviours. Bringing the hit HBO show “Sex & the City,” into the mix to discuss accurate character portrayals of these styles, as well as specific scenes.

My take of how optimistic tendencies can lead to a more romanticized lifestyle and how you can achieve romanticization no matter what you are - pessimist, optimist, or realist. Using techniques that have worked for me - a former pessimist.